Random thoughts about why cats steal sewing items and other mysteries in the life of a crafts person.
Monday, February 21, 2011
helpless husband debate
So the big question for this week..are husbands as helpless as they appear? How do grown men who have so many skills,,so much common sense..throw it out the window when faced with the simplest task? I have debated with myself ..wondering if a capable female somehow just flips a switch in their heads ( nope no need to worry about that..she can do it!) ,,do we need to be the stereotypical blonde?! Used to be if I had a hammer in my hand WHAMO he showed up behind me hovering,,whatya doin? Why don't you let me do that? ( why didn't I say yes?Because I am a modern independent women! I do not nag..I don't make lists..(ok I nag about his health) I want him to have free time to enjoy himself..but when I send him to the store for 2 items,,I want the 2 I asked for! I am still very much in love with my husband after 15 years! I am a very laid back person. I asked him to change the kitty litter for the first time (maybe 2nd) ever with consequences I don't want to describe! Suffice to say he locked the cat out of the litter pan by putting the lid on backwards ( I didn't know you could put in on backwards!)
It's what makes us laugh after year sof marriage and I wouldn't actually kill him or trade him in but banging my head on a wall every now and then..that I do!